Couples & Relationship Counseling

Couples & Relationship Counseling in Brooklyn, NY

Gottman, EFT, and discernment-counseling-trained therapists for couples, partners, and pre-marital work — in-person in Brooklyn or telehealth across NY.

Whether you're navigating a single rough patch, recovering from infidelity, or trying to decide if the relationship has a future, couples therapy gives you a structured, neutral space to do the work. Our couples clinicians are trained in the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and discernment counseling, and they don't take sides.

This may be a good fit if…

  • Communication breakdowns and recurring arguments
  • Rebuilding trust after an affair or betrayal
  • Pre-marital and pre-cohabitation counseling
  • LGBTQ+ couples, polyamorous relationships, intercultural partnerships
  • Discernment counseling — deciding whether to stay or separate

Gottman Method Couples Therapy

Based on 40+ years of research with over 3,000 couples. We use the Sound Relationship House framework to assess your relationship, target the specific pillars that need work, and teach the communication skills the research shows actually predict long-term satisfaction.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT, developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, treats relationship distress as an attachment problem. We help you identify the negative cycle you're stuck in, reach the softer emotions underneath the surface conflicts, and create a new bond grounded in secure attachment.

Affair Recovery & Trust Repair

Infidelity recovery is a structured 3-phase process: atonement, attunement, and attachment. We help the partner who broke trust make full repair, the hurt partner process the wound, and both of you decide what kind of relationship to rebuild — without retraumatization.

Discernment Counseling

For couples where one partner is leaning out, discernment counseling is a short-term (1–5 sessions) decision-making process. The goal isn't to save the marriage — it's to help you both walk away with clarity about whether to stay, separate, or pursue a structured ‘all-in’ trial.

Gottman's Sound Relationship House

Seven floors, two load-bearing walls — built from 40+ years of research with 3,000+ couples.

Create Shared Meaning
Make Life Dreams Come True
Manage Conflict
The Positive Perspective
Turn Towards Instead of Away
Share Fondness & Admiration
Build Love Maps
Wall: TrustWall: Commitment

What to expect

  1. 1

    Joint intake session — both partners present, history and goals

  2. 2

    1–2 individual sessions with each partner

  3. 3

    Feedback session: assessment, treatment plan, and projected timeline

  4. 4

    Weekly 50–80-min couples sessions; most see real shifts in 8–12 weeks

Frequently Asked Questions

Will the therapist take sides?

No. A trained couples therapist holds a neutral, multi-partial stance — that means caring deeply for both of you and for the relationship itself as a third entity. If you ever feel ganged-up-on, we want to hear it that session.

Does insurance cover couples counseling?

Insurance coverage for couples therapy varies. Many Crown Counseling couples sessions are covered when one partner has a qualifying mental-health diagnosis. We verify benefits before your first session and explain your exact coverage and copay up front.

Should we do couples therapy or individual therapy?

If the main pain point is your relationship — communication, trust, intimacy, life transitions together — start with couples therapy. If you're struggling with depression, anxiety, or trauma that pre-dates the relationship, individual therapy first (or alongside) often works better. We can help you decide on the consult call.

What if my partner won't come?

You can still benefit from ‘one-sided’ couples work. We help you change your part of the dance, set sustainable boundaries, and decide what's tolerable. Often, the more grounded partner shifting first invites the other one in.

Is this covered by insurance?

Yes — Crown Counseling is in-network with Aetna, Cigna / Evernorth, Empire BlueCross BlueShield, Anthem BCBS, Healthfirst, MetroPlus, Fidelis, Oxford / Oscar, Northwell Health, and Medicare. Many clients pay $0–$35 per session after benefits are verified. We confirm your specific copay before your first appointment.

Do you offer in-person and telehealth?

Both. In-person sessions take place at our Crown Heights, Brooklyn office (1398 Carroll St). Telehealth is available to anyone physically located in New York State on a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.

How soon can I get started?

Most new clients are seen within 3–7 days. After you submit the intake form, our care coordinator calls within one business day to verify your insurance, answer questions, and book your first session at a time that works for you.

Start couples & relationship counseling this week.

Tell us what you're looking for and we'll match you with the right clinician — we verify your insurance and get back to you within 24 hours.